Mary Bea Sullivan – The Perspective of a Concerned Parent

Mary Bea Sullivan – Mary’s son Brendan attends Auburn University and sold for a first summer in 2010

Mary Bea Sullivan’s son Brendan worked in the Southwestern Internship in 2010 for a first summer.

When our son, Brendan, called to say he was considering an internship with Southwestern Advantage, I was extremely skeptical. Actually, I thought he would have to be crazy to do it. I have spent many years in sales and various forms of business development and imagined this would be incredibly difficult. Also, I was concerned about Brendan’s living arrangements and safety. When we met with the Southwestern representative, my husband and I were slightly less skeptical, but still wary. Ultimately, we decided that this was Brendan’s choice as a young man, and we would support him. We knew he was capable of hard work based upon his dedication to school, sports, and a previous restaurant job.
At the beginning of the summer I was still uneasy. Brendan’s living situation was great and his host family took wonderful care of him and his roommate. Brendan’s experience throughout the summer varied. Sometimes he would be “pumped up” and excited, other times, we could tell he was discouraged. He was well supported by his manager and bonded with the other students on the team. We tried to encourage as best we could from afar and avoid the temptation to over-advise. This was a great opportunity for us to trust Brendan and for him to learn to trust himself.
We were struck by the maturity we heard from Brendan as the summer progressed. We noticed he was taking responsibility for his choices, saw the connection between his attitude and his experience of life, and focused on activity–understanding that the only he could control was his dedication to the plan, not how people would respond to him, i.e. buy or not buy.
In the months to follow, we noticed many residual benefits from Brendan selling for Southwestern.
• Brendan has translated his dedication in the field to classwork. With the encouragement of his mentor, he is structuring his time to study like a work day and is more organized and efficient in his approach to schoolwork. • He is a better communicator; especially a more attentive listener. • Brendan is enjoying the trips and connections with Southwestern friends at Auburn and around the country. • Success breeds confidence and happiness. Even though Brendan didn’t break any records, he practice real perseverance and has gained confidence from that.
I am especially grateful to Southwestern Advantage for encouraging and mentoring Brendan. This program is an excellent opportunity for any young person who wishes to be successful–not just in business, but in life. We have a daughter who is a sophomore in college and she has committed to work with Southwestern Advantage, too. I have found comfort in meeting some of the young women who have also enjoyed their experience and done well.
From my perspective as a once very-concerned mom, the income students earn working in the program is fantastic, but it’s still secondary to the life lessons they will gain.
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2 Comments on “Mary Bea Sullivan – The Perspective of a Concerned Parent”

  1. Brendan Meyer

    Thanks for your support mom! You have supported me in everything I do and given me the advice and examples that lead me to make my decisions now that I am more independent!

  2. Liz Miedema

    this is awesome. I can only imagine what a parent would think not knowing exactly what’s going to happen. I love your support!

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